This should fix https://dev.yorhel.nl/ncdu/bug/99 - with the downside
that this requires a C99 compiler.

I also replaced all occurrences of static allocation of struct dir with
use dynamic allocation, because I wasn't really sure if static
allocation of flexible structs is allowed. In the case of dirlist.c the
dynamic allocation is likely required anyway, because it does store a
few bytes in the name field.